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Education Program for the prevention of intimate partner violence

Yesterday I read that the Women's Institute with the Ministry of Education will launch a program to prevent domestic violence in the IES.
I was very surprised, because I have two years working in an effective and enforceable (which takes as its starting point an investigation more than five years with students of the IES of Murcia): I've designed, I have already implemented and are testing other teachers (Llano de Brujas, Saavedra Fajardo, Las Torres de Cotillas and Torre Pacheco), and although I suggested to the Institute for Women, I have not ignored.
I note a very important issue, so this is not, once again, pure zeal for advertising, or a waste of economic resources without effective result, we must bear in mind that the program has to be (again): effective and applicable . And the knowledge I have of this progrm is neither one thing nor the other.
To put it bluntly, this program is pure artifice. Methodologically
is irrelevant, what you should rule out in advance.
Do you know who is a Secondary School? However university professor who is, has no idea of \u200b\u200bhow a secondary school, or what are the schedules, or timing, or classroom activity, or ... And worst of all, the Ministry of Education proves it. It must be that there either have no idea. He speaks
12 program two test sessions. What establishes a minimum of 14, using videos, for example, can extend the program to 16 sessions, which coincide in time with tests, recoveries, extracurricular activities, parties, etc., we take 20 sessions (1 per week equals 20 weeks).
What course will teach? As if he were seeing.
This program will be dedicated at 4 º ESO and from there going to be assigned to the Ethics. Did you know that this subject has only one hour a week? This program will absorb a minimum of two thirds of the programming, and the subject content occupies only one-sixth.
Impossible.
addition, as one hour a week is impossible to develop in a quarter (2 nd quarter in particular) for what is scheduled, if we count the weeks, and discount vacations and holidays, the program will last until May, at least (5 months).
same thing happen with the tutorials.
As for the objectives and content of the program: Do you really think you can train girls and boys in skills that enable them to identify future violent relationships? Do you sincerely believe that boys and girls do not know how to identify them (by themselves and themselves)? Do you think you change modes-of-being and feeling is the same as changing behavior? Do you think learning and aprehendizaje follow the same patterns? Do you really think that is so simple?
several years working with students (or played-os? Go do not remember), even the girl whose example I have at first. Several years (investigation) in which they read stories, seen documentaries, movies, power-point. Have argued, fought, answered, argued, and so on. And after many years of research I am able to say that, unfortunately, the issue can not be reduced to a Literature Workshop ": 12 to 20 sessions to combat child abuse"?; For students to generate "self-concepts ?; to know "the values \u200b\u200bof self? and body with "intuitions?; for girls" know not to get involved? (Drawn from the program itself).
The students and the students can recognize in overwhelmingly sexist and violent attitudes. But still generate complementary relations (dominance / submission), as if they somehow affect chronic trauma syndrome, as if he were drawn into a relationship that transcends them as individuals. And this program does not affect the system of relations, but falling in all the mistakes that I have been denouncing (Among other things, the Women's Institute gave me the Murciano of the Year award for this reason), still considered abuse from a reductionist perspective of self and their behaviors.
If we want to prevent domestic violence have to go through cultural intervention programs (Marta Torres Falco Judith Herman, Eleanor Walker EA, etc. Very great specialists in the field). And again, this program is not. It focuses on the individual, the ego, not culture, not the contents that make up the systems of relations between individuals. It focuses on Mary and John but not the kind of relationship that exists between women and men and covers private and public dimensions and is present in all spheres of reality: religion, economics, politics, family, ...
When involved in education should be tackled precisely in all these dimensions, and this intervention, which is always long-term change must affect the living conditions of women, Additional conformation (submission) of their gender with respect to the male (domain) part-time odd jobs, lower wages for equal work double shifts at work (inside and outside the home), equitable share of power in all the estates, owning your own body, etc..
aggression (physical and emotional), is the tip of the iceberg. Tragically, no doubt, but the effect is not the cause, the symptom not the disease ...
And this program is designed, in its objectives and content, even the effects of domestic violence and not its causes.

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The torture never stops

Upon returning from vacation this summer, I found an e-mail in which a girl asked my advice to help a friend, aged 17, who was abused by her boyfriend: forbidden to speak to other kids, to come out without it, who uses the messenger, I deleted all contacts from the phone, fought with her if she put her skirt .. As usual, he blamed her for the whole situation.
fights, arguments, accusations and prohibitions came to a head at four months, and the threat of leaving, he made some concessions, prompting her to continue with that relationship.
The intensity of fighting increased, and their hostility rose to her every day, "'re a whore", "I hope you die!, saying the threat to be killed because of him ... And between a flare and another, " I is that I love you ... "" I will not do that again ... "" I'm very sad ... "and so on.
One day she tells him to leave because "they saw him with another ..." and then, as expected, he hit for the first time.
Her response was "final" left him ... and ... > ("I'm so sorry ..." "I do not know how I" "I'm very sorry ..." Before I cut my hands touch you ... ") have returned to be together.
When his friend asked why he had gone with him, she replied that "he changed" which "was the best month of his life," which "were bad he was ready" and that "he wants "and" never again to abuse "...

* * *
are 17 years ... What life awaits?

"I've always lived world of him ... "
All abuser is a torturer who seeks rational and emotional domination of his victim. This domain is possible only by destroying their autonomy, and this destruction is achieved when the perpetrator gets his victim isolate themselves and others.
But beware, this domain is not complete if the victim does not represent a consensual submission, and even desired. What causes the phenomenon of abuse is long lasting.
How could this happen?

"You hold on, hold on you. All women have a cross to bear ... "Throughout
of our early years we all learn to communicate with others through interaction with our parents, siblings, friends, teachers, etc. In addition to acquiring communicative structures that allow us to discriminate contexts, and establish meaningful relationships with others, grasp a set of values \u200b\u200bthat shape our world emotionally and cognitively significant.
is, individuals not born in a vacuum, but within a culture that provides all the structural elements from which we become socially adept individuals. The view we are establishing here is simple: humans interact in the world as a target performing a "vision" of what is and / or should be the reality. Of what are and should be our relationships with others, etc. What makes our ways of acting in the world are not independent of our ways of thinking and values, but these modes have more to do with the emotions (images) that the "reasons." Finally, with this complex mechanism, meaning we provide not only the world in which I will act, but all the relationships that we will set it (and I hope he goes to engage with me), so communication structures that are articulated as innate modes of signifying relationships.
The example of this is reflected in what I call Syndrome Syndrome Clan and Heloise (see my book Mae's loneliness. An anthropological investigation of domestic violence ), a set of symptoms that significantly determine the behavior of women interacting with men, from a double perspective: on one side from the value system that represents the feminine in relation to masculinity, in the context of the family, that is, the woman as wife and mother From another side, from the system of values \u200b\u200bthat represent the dark and light feeling we call love. Of course both sets of values \u200b\u200bare interdependent.
also the whole cultural context is not independent of our nature: physiological and evolutionary, which tends to form dependency relationships biochemistry and instinctive.

"I wanted to stay with it, because removing the poles, which was something big, in other respects was not a bad person ... I wanted to be a normal family"
Our system of relations, therefore, is rooted in depths of our cultural and biological being and in this context from which the offender operates to subject the victim to a process of domination.
The process can be expressed through a psychological domination scheme (See Herman "Captive" in Jail love 2005, and Lenore Walker, 1979) in which the victim is subjected to an emotional context pathogen: fear (the mate) / gratitude (for spares his life), degradation (because it controls your body) / exaltation (it dims the control) and axiological violation (because it requires the victim to betray all their value system.)
But this scheme is not exclusive to domestic abuse, but is the same one used by the hijackers political, prostitution rings, sects and, of course, domestic abusers.
However, in domestic violence the victim is taken prisoner through violence but through love (a biological / cultural), and is not kept in prison with chains and bars, but by the cultural values \u200b\u200bof the family.
As the complement system (dominance / submission) which are organized under our domestic relations, the victim emotionally centered around the functions that are proper in that system of relationships (wife / mother), the offender focuses on persuasion values \u200b\u200bthat underpin these relationships until the victim gets to the basic unit of cognitive and emotional survival, as she and her abuser. And from here, the domestic relationship becomes pathogenic.
In fact, the whole relationship with the perpetrator, the victim is always subject to a triple context of interpretation must combine: to what you expect and want from your relationship (love can not be violence) as the that is required of her as a mother and wife (the family is their area of \u200b\u200bresponsibility) and the domination of abusive behavior (which is not required but expected).
intracontextual In this situation, a beating is not meant as aggressive behavior, criminal and immoral that precludes a relationship, but as a behavior "exceptional" motivated by reasons beyond the relationship itself (disease, drugs, excess love ...) and can be corrected through love, communication, etc.
Over time, this behavior is normalized by the victim (see the relationship through his eyes), producing a morbid system of relationships, both physical and moral perspective, which will lose its autonomy ("I've always lived in the world of him ..." ) and set their life experiences, including suffering through the patterns that mark her attacker (" But I always hoped to change ... From courthouse door 2 or 3 times: "Please do not leave me ...." And I'm back "). At this point, the complete domination has occurred and the victim is left to itself ... ("A Sunday on the beach, gave me a huge beating. I left as I could from the house and saw police officers ... but I could not denounce. ")


When will we start to pull our issue seriously and create effective models of prevention? ...

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The Karen are loquee for fraud and 'Urraco'

The TV host Karen Dejo tugging at a reporter for a television channel, to be confused with a 'Urraco "Magaly TeVe, a departure from headquarters Research Director Criminal (Dirincri), which is investigated by an order of the Attorney General for payment of $ 55 000 and 38 thousand soles checks.

The incident occurred yesterday when the dancer, accompanied by his lawyer Omar Isiqui-was submitted to the Division of Dirincri Scams in block 3 of the avenue Spain, with the aim of changing the date of subpoena sent him to go to their demonstration to the complaint that brought the businessman Renato Casallo Wolf, to the prosecutor.

Upon his departure, the young host of "Saturday tropical 'was violent to a reporter who covers information on the Dirincri, and mistaking him for a 'Urraco' program Magaly Medina. "You did not save it. Lower the camera. I want to be quiet," said the angry young man who left with his lawyer to a nearby restaurant, where he met two other people.

On the other hand, in the digital newspaper 'Peru.com', Karen blamed his former manager, Carlos Morales Melendez, Renato Wolf had cheated. "Five months ago, Carlos Morales was no longer my manager because I cheated, so the channel will not let him enter. That man has duped many entrepreneurs and people from the entertainment and I will gather them together to denounce it," he said.

Karen added, "I am unable to owe someone. Morales also defrauded Manolo Rojas, Raul Romero, Kike Suero, Fiorella Flores, the group Nectar and the Municipality of Bellavista, among others."

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About "members" and educational programs

A case history:
few months ago, a high school student was put to mourn because he could not pass the course (I had never suspended). After the class, I met with them to find out what was wrong, and between sobs told me I could not study because they only wanted to be with her boyfriend. Than when they were together, she missed him and could only think of it ... "Imagine the rest. Too
operating endorphin in the body, too much dopamine circulating in the blood, too many hanging mythological models of desire, too many interests to burden our behavior ... In the middle S
XXI how little we know about ourselves as individuals and as a community. And while the state of affairs continues, in the same spot thousands of years, we start to discuss brownfield issues about "members" and members.
Have you ever wondered why people who hide in the language always begin with the masculine term? Should we not also focus on the percentages? The fair that each sex would fall by 50% starting in any generic list.
Let's be serious, please.
I can assure you that my little student care if she was a "member" or if your boyfriend was a member ... I was just ready to stop being self-same, being for-it. And unfortunately this situation is quite daily among us: in schools, colleges, universities, markets, gyms ... In short, at ground level and not Real Flight Academy.
I said in a previous article that gave a vote of confidence to the new Ministry, and I maintain it, but I tell the minister (in all humility), that the problem of domestic violence (which is not simply to assault marital, but the domain of male values) is structural and, therefore, requires the same level measures to help solve, or at least alleviate it.
As much as you want, which is honored, it will not be able to solve the problems of being a woman in the world overnight: it is a matter of generations, but what not to do is divert to marginal issues.
If necessary, change of advisers, but not become the problem of equality in a circus, because these tracks are always fatal attractions. We must be patient and know exactly what you want to do and why.
and worth, by the way, these same words to the Director of the Institute for Women in the Region of Murcia, with regard to educational program for preventing dating violence.
Do you really think you can train girls and boys in skills that enable them to identify future violent relationships? Do you sincerely believe that boys and girls do not know how to identify them (by themselves and themselves)? Do you think you change modes-of-being and feeling is the same as changing behavior? Do you think learning and aprehendizaje follow the same patterns? Do you really think that is so simple?
several years working with students (or played-os? Go do not remember), even with the girl whose example I have at first. Several years (investigation) in which they read stories, seen documentaries, movies, power-point. Have argued, fought, answered, argued, and so on. And after many years of research I am able to say that, unfortunately, the issue can not be reduced to a Literature Workshop. "
This program you have is pure artifice: 12 sessions to combat child abuse "?; For students to generate" self-concepts?; to know "the values \u200b\u200bof self? and body with "intuitions?; for girls" know not to get involved?
may serve to justify any kind of political, but what evidence is that they have no idea what they are talking.
As I informed you (Do you remember that I proposed a program of large-scale intervention and said he would call me? "I'm still waiting), involved in education, if you want to do with seriousness and rigor, it is only possible through structural application programs that require the processing of specific curriculum subjects, for the issue of domestic violence and the situation of women in society has its own autonomy and is not a matter of gender mainstreaming workshops or collateral. Also, intervention models are needed to address the issue in the coaching of the ESO and through the APAS.
precisely what I suggested to no response on their part.
Like it or not, and this goes for both the struggle for equality is not going to advertise themselves, but to disrupt and combat complementary structures (dominance / submission), on which are set the way we feel and think of the inside of domestic relations (family).
is so long and so complicated. An arduous task in which all institutions should involve a combined effort and constant.
If you are in the work, collaborate, organize, direct ... If not, please do not interfere.