Saturday, December 29, 2007

Sample Of Appeal Letter For College

victims as "acceptable price" for the stability

Wotan,
Thanks for writing, as this blog thing lately was stopped.
With respect to your contribution I want to answer it to the three statements containing:
1. I do not think we should think that the problem of violence is trivialized in society. Rather CRRE not enough to see its profound implications, or not interested politically and economically speaking: NOT YOU FORGET THAT THE WOMAN IS A RIVAL TO THE MAN IN THE LABOR MARKET, POLITICAL AND ECONOMIC.
2. It is fundamentally a moral issue, nor is psychological and sociological, but extends to all institutions and human dimensions, and also gets involved in the structural aspects of our nature: THE DIFFERENCE BEING OUR PRIMATES MODES OF FOREIGN AS WELL AS BEING Animals · COMMUNITY.
3. Evangelistic organizations (the Catholic Church, and all other faiths) are doing a disservice to the solution of this problem. But hey, this is expected since religious systems are very reactionary and this expression must be understood as value judgments, but should be seen as a finding of a systemic phenomenon: CULTURE REAGENTS TO PROVIDE MECHANISMS FOR SOCIAL STRUCTURE IS "STABLE" (evidence is important to define the "stability").
4. My proposal has always been simple: stability can be defined differently, if we organize ourselves differently, as additional interest ...
ete Along blog, all entries, give an explanation for eto can be more or less understood. And in the just published book: Mae's loneliness. Anthropological research on domestic violence, , Editorial Fundamentos, is all the explanation in the right way and complete (at least I hope). Although I will add that this is a damn book.
could sum up they said there are too many biases and prejudices that make the problem of domestic violence is addressed from individuals and not from the forms of relationship of those individuals. But make no mistake, it is also a matter of economic and political interests: What are we willing to give to solve the problem of domestic violence?
Let the CIS and enlightening look at a figure more than 81% of English still consider the family as the most important of our lives, second only to for health (86%). And the family is not a problem, but a "blessing" is not a place of conflict, but the sabbath is not a place of hostility, but of love ...
No more than 70 dead a year we reacted! We
considering the family as the proper place where people we adapt to what we are like animals, like humans, as individuals and as citizens. It is important, essential, original, founding and it is evident that it can not find any connection with the abuse. Because obviously, those families in which abuse occurs are not real families are dysfunctional, whatever that may mean.
Well, close to the family, and more with "bad intentions" is not a simple matter, for three main reasons having to do with the community:
1. Because we are talking about a very complex interaction that connects individuals to the community to which he belongs. In this sense, the family (intersubjective context) is the space in ways that make you think and feel emotionally the reality of individuals (which are taxable), but its purpose does not end in itself but in the community .
2. Because it is still sacred to both individuals and institutions as conservative is the first barrier that the community has to stop the creative dynamism or destructive individuals (subjectivity), which can be development but also, disorganization, chaos, etc..
3. Because being an emotional space composed of "those who matter", the control mechanisms of the interactions (resolution of any conflict, regulation of paternal and maternal tasks, etc.) Carried out in the field of privacy and disinterest (economic, political, etc.), thereby saving the community many conflicts and many institutional mechanisms to solve them.
In short, it saves a lot of money. A slap from a teacher, say, a child in a school may end up requiring the presence (existence) of police, lawyers, judges, etc., and yet, the act becomes a pedagogical punishment if it occurs in the family.
could also refer to the care of the elderly. Can you imagine the cost saving to the state women when dealing with the care of elderly and disabled family members?
Complexity, self-preservation and economics three reasons powerful enough that we keep talking about the family as a private sphere of individuals in which no one should break. So problems that are specific and distinct begin and end within the boundaries of home and, as there is love, affection, etc.., the solution is a matter of improving communication.
But let's go down and Let 's hit the skies where angels fear to tread. It's my world and yours: a world of reason with passions and passions to reason, in which everyday women face daily domestic relations system in which the shape desired and expected the two poles between which it operates its existence.
Nobody denies there are problems, even that they are serious: they recognize over 77% of women who have researched. What can you expect from a "family affair? ... The troubles, riots, discussions, fighting pain ... although undesirable, are expected in a relationship. But do not think that this way of entering the world as real and pragmatic, experienced women draws on the vicissitudes of daily existence, as the 78.26% of those under age 21 acknowledge this view as their own .
And who would deny this?
found I hear voices of angels and demons malicious naive (or was it vice versa?):
The relationships are also of love, understanding, companionship, sexuality (this will only say the demons, of course), etc.
And who would deny this?
But ... no, not continue on this path, for now. Keep me the blessed and malicious, the realists and idealists, rationalists and feeling (al) ist ... Whatever they are and why they are. Prohibited from occupying the land and see what we can discover.
To begin, one question: What happens with the remaining 33%? Simply denying any negative feedback in regard to domestic relations. Yes, there are bad times, but these are what make the relationship grow and strengthen. It is a percentage rather high call it: emotional naivete.
Next, look at that 94.2% of women, including victims abuse you, he pragmatically say that communication is the solution to problems between couples. Coming to admit that one of the factors of domestic violence is the lack of communication between partners, which enables the problems can be accumulated and end up detonating in an abusive situation. Let us be bold and also call this phenomenon: emotional naivete.
And finally, only 5.8% occur to them to say that "the stories are finished" and that everyone must go their own way. What
vices and virtues are hidden behind these modes of thinking and feeling relationships between men and women?
A simple and complex answer: the solution of women's issues.
What do I mean? Very simple: we continue to believe that domestic violence is a situation that has to do only with individuals or companies called sexist, and we realize that the woman question is, was and is a State issue: economy, relationships social, birth, organization, institutions, etc., and that's something we do not want, do we know? face.
For this reason, we built a system of values \u200b\u200bby which we represent a domestic universe sustained by three pillars:
1. The belief that relationships are the private sector is and thus, away from the public. In this sense, the family is interpreted as a kind of limbo, paradise, where individuals are transformed into a complete and independent body, oblivious to the vicissitudes of daily life and the political right. How much would enter the realm of morality.
2. The belief that the relationship between men and women is, at least, emotionally timeless and necessary, until death do us part, and if the relationship is not right: it is a matter of discussion!, Commitment, understanding about to the relationship and, if necessary, sacrifice unidirectional (in the vast majority of cases).
3. Belief that domestic violence is a problem (and therefore may disappear and ... peace here and then glory), which arises from the lack of communication between partners. Of course, just as he is with her, and she is ultimately responsible for the domestic sphere, as we already know: your love is always communicating.
How to overcome this state of affairs?
inserting them into the outskirts of culture and nature, where angels do not want to step on and the gap has woman's name. The proper place which eliminates the ability to survive independently of the woman and she becomes a victim objective through a tragic sense of inevitable:
"My mother always told me:" For your children, you hold for your children. "
I could not stand for my children. I endured for the hope that change, because I, deep down, he wanted "(Words of a female victim of abuse).

Sunday, December 16, 2007

Words That Describe A Spiderman

The book's loneliness Mae. Anthropological research on domestic violence

A month ago I could not sit down and write on the blog, the reasons have been mixed but mostly had to do with issues relating to combating domestic violence.
As usual, during the month of November is usually remember me and I have accumulated a lot of work from conferences, interviews on television, through talks at schools or meetings Director of the Institute for Women ...
addition, this year has been special because for the month of November, I had to oversee the publication of my book Mae's loneliness. An anthropological investigation of domestic violence, , Editorial Fundamentos, ISBN: 978-84-245-1135-7, which obviously, by the data I give, is just published.
So if you want, you can buy, read and comment on the blogg. I've also been very
ocupadp because I've organized the CONFERENCE AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IES "Llano de Brujas" 20-23 NOVEMBER 2007 LEVEL OF WITCHES

A lot of work but, I assure you it was worth. Students have worked a lot (more than 60 volunteers of both sexes) and the various activities have developed very well.
I attached the program for several reasons: 1 º
thank all students who have been active.
2 º mention my special thanks to Joan Herreo, Charlene Gonzales, and Alicia Poza (Sterman). The first two of his lectures and Alicia for your interest and future projects that we perform.
3 º To tell you that next year I want to expand this conference at the IES in the city of Murcia, Community and other communities, so I ask here, people volunteers to develop the project.


PROGRAM TUESDAY, 20 h. 10.50
Classrooms and corridors

IES Performance: "ECCE WOMEN"
charge of the students of 4 º ESO 1 º Bachillerato and

11.30 h.
hall of
IES Lecture: "A COMPREHENSIVE APPROACH TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE"
charge of Mrs. Jane Smith, Head of the Women of the Department of Social Welfare and Equality Policies of the City of Murcia.
12.30 h. Debate

(For students of 4 º ESO)

WEDNESDAY 21
11.30 h.
Assembly Hall IES
Cine-forum and Roundtable (by students)
Documentary "LOVE TO KILL"
Chair: D. Pablo Martínez Cánovas
Speakers: Ms. Sara Pérez Castro

Ms. Ana Hernandez Zamora
D. Sergio Sánchez González Casanova

Ms. Teresa Muñoz (For students of 1 º de Bachillerato)

THURSDAY 22
11.30 h.
IES hall of
Conference: "THE BODY OF THE WOMAN" by D.
Javier Ortega Cañavate
Author of book: The loneliness of Mae. Anthropological research on domestic violence.
12.30 h. Debate

(For students of 4 º ESO)

FRIDAY 23
11.30 h.
hall of
IES Lecture INTEGRAL PROTECTIVE MEASURES AGAINST GENDER VIOLENCE IN THE WORKPLACE "
Led by Ms. Charo González Martínez
Ministry of Women, Social Policy and Care CC.OO. SMEs
12.30 h.
Debate
(For students of 1 º de Bachillerato)

And finally, I have developed an intervention program, which named below, I have proposed to the Institute for Women's Ministry and the Institute for Women of Murcia.
Project: CULTURAL INSTRUMENTS TO COMBAT AND PREVENT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
Scope: secondary education institutions, INSTITUTE FOR WOMEN, SOCIAL AFFAIRS and Juticí.
Subjects: Application: YOUTH 13 TO 18 YEARS FOR ABUSE VICTIMS, abuse, and work with victims and abuse.
Intent: DEVELOPMENT OF THE SECOND PART OF THE Law 1 / 2004 of 28 December on Integral Protection Measures against Gender Violence.

You see, the month of November has been very busy ... But for that we are right?
A greeting.

Saturday, November 10, 2007

Lorena Herrera Fotos Al Desnudo

VIDEOS DE KAREN DEJO

Karen Dejo Videos Beautiful and Ambitious

Monday, October 8, 2007

Kohler Cimarron Toilet Vs. Toto Ultramax

Part II. During the Middle Ages

Let's see, the Middle Ages is a time very long and complex but can be generalized (with many shades and apologizing to specialists).
First, you can not expect much of a time when Christianity (Pauline) becomes universal ideology in the West.
Eva What to expect? "Capable of killing even their own children to marry a widower, condemnation of humanity once again is born and dies and is reborn for the longer original sin and become natural."
Nothing can wait, because its ethos is not the result of a decision but a nature. But not only is the body that must be mastered, but also his thought: the word chatter tireless and insatiable, changing, perverted and perverting the natural and social order.
But after all is not his fault what it is but believe most of what is, or what is the same as not knowing what it is (do you sounds of femicide?) And therefore must be protected himself to not endanger others must be guarded.
And who are the custodians? Shame, submission and fear, or what is the same: the man, the law and God.
not tell me that Christianity did not offer anything good to women
I did not say that, but we can not do is deny the evidence and assume that the Christian myth is beyond all that we have come to investigating this time. What
happening: that human societies disappear, that the political order and family are not required, that desire, the relationship between women and men, education, control of behavior, population problems, economics, etc., stop exist?
prototypical features of women during this period are the same as in the clan: producing goods to supplement household production (in this sense are an aid to the man, who is producing) the upbringing and education to children (religious education, of course, when the West is Christian). And as in the clans, the children are separated from their mothers when they are seven years old while girls stayed until they married.
really, no.
the same needs still exist, are demanding the same functions, continue to manifest the same structures ... Although the stories change.
But something had to change, as with Christianity women reach a point that had not hitherto?
Indeed. You can not delete anything you can do, but if you control it so you do not impossible.

do not understand is the reinterpretation of women to Christianity, responds to a very pragmatic needs for its development as a source of power.
A Empire's end, she walked, or rather it was reinterpreted in its status as a person and not just as a daughter, wife or somebody's mother. In this way, and from a mythological perspective (II), femininity is not only Eva (body and sinful), also is Mary (virgin and mother) and Magdalene (repented and faithful).
And from this condition of mother and wife, can be found in nature as an individual letter in a world that is modeled on the transcendence.
Because she is the vehicle of transmission of Christianity is its instrument of evangelization and thus of power, so it must be protected and encouraged, albeit within certain limits, namely: those that set their own corrupt and corrupting nature.
addition, many of the measures that are supposed to improve the living conditions of women: to sanctify marriage as monogamous, not intended recognition of their independence, but solve political problems, such as setting limits alliances between noble families so they can not organize under a single leadership, which may endanger the stability of the Carolingian Christian state.
And in the urban environment in which women were working outside the home, their status changed something?
Women have always worked within and outside the home, another thing is that it is willing to recognize or not.
About half of the master craftsmen lacked officers, despite legislation obliging them to have them. The work was especially familiar. They worked the teacher and his family.
The more women working in the studio of her husband, unless it was in the house, which was customary for cities to hire a person that would make their domestic work for wages unimportant, though it only responsible , which is in charge of organizing everything related to the household (Does it sound familiar?).
Women therefore worked at home and also outside it, being a force in both areas producing competent and competitive.
Was it legal?
No. Was it public domain? Yes
had no problems until it was transformed into a competitor of man.
When did that happen?
When economic crisis and unemployment was among men. So, did not allow work in the workshops of their husbands and reconducían home. What will happen in our Europe where there is a serious economic crisis ...?
The history of women and work outside the home is a long and costly struggle in which women have suffered, suffered and will suffer more than men, the consequences of economic crisis because in a world complement the resolución de los conflictos siempre beneficiará al que ejerce el dominio.
Y esto es lo mismo que ocurre hoy en día, incluso en los países nórdicos: la mujer sigue siendo la responsable y organizadora de la unidad doméstica y además trabaja fuera del hogar, pero este trabajo no es tanto un trabajo como un complemento, es más una cesión que un derecho. Por eso la temporalidad afecta más a la mujer que al hombre, la mujer cobra menos dinero que el hombre a igualdad de trabajo.
No es de extrañar entonces, que cuando se es madre se tienda a renunciar al trabajo extradoméstico.
Pero no es una cuestión natural, sino de organización política.
¿O sea, que cuando come a time of economic crisis, women may start trembling?
Indeed, but it has always been, is nothing new.
"In the course of the eighteenth century, women were expanding their job opportunities, but more surprising is that as soon as this happened, women seeking employment in the new branch multiplied employment and wages fell. The work was identified as "women's work" and as such are remunerated. In 1762, the Board of Campbell in London assigned to the category of working poor to all activities garment by women, which exposed the affected situations of serious need and provided the base de reclutamiento para la prostitución”.
Por cierto: ¿existía violencia doméstica reconocida como tal?
Que el marido maltratase a la mujer era una conducta normal y socialmente aceptada. De hecho ni en el Derecho Romano ni en el Germano, la mujer podía divorciarse de su marido por el maltrato, sólo lo podía hacer si el hombre era homicida, necromántico o violador de tumbas (Romano); si era pederasta, o si la había obligado a fornicar con otros (Derecho Germano).
Ahora bien, durante los siglos XIV y XV los tribunales atendían numerosos casos de violencia doméstica . No sólo las mujeres sino también sus familias podían poner denuncias y solicitar the dissolution of marriage ("And we believe that our laws are novel?). This implies that the problem existed but, unlike other times, he was recognized as a problem.
But ultimately, taking into account that as a good complementary system of law and society gave the man all his power to dominate women, judges used to remind women that they should obey their husbands.
And nothing has changed, right?
Less than we
At this point it seems strange that women do not agree and end up with us.
bit like the myth of the Ona, but in reverse?
Yes
But is that women want and we do not know why.
A somewhat strange response
is not much, or is it you think that love is not given complementary?
Let's see, how we understand the love between men and women originated in the Middle Ages, an era in which Christian women together develops a complex system of interaction: courtly love, the paradigm may be the stories of Tristan and Isolate and Abelard and Heloise.
What if we interpret from our context?

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

Can Herpes Occur On Chest

Video beautiful and ambitious leave


So, to the delight of his admirers, Karen Dejo participated in the recordings of the Beautiful and Ambitious miniseries where stars totally nude erotic lit scenes. She knows that the skin is short and so, apparently, has decided to make the most of their strong economic and knowing anatomy, we assume it must have taken very good green bills to show their curves in front of cameras. As we assume, the Miniseries argument is irrelevant and one is interested as was the case with which starred Andrea Montenegro a few years ago ago. And last but not least, the series also "act" other models and dancers figure as shapely Joanhy Vegas, Andrea Rodriguez and some more.

sure this will raise the slumping bond a little "artistic" to Karen after her Things like police and others, after seeing the series, we no longer need to imagine how she is when the Galatians. A great contribution to the art no doubt.


EROTICO to see the video click:

Wednesday, September 5, 2007

Club Car Vs Yamaha Electric Carts

DO YOU HAVE A HISTORY OF WOMEN?

During February Pallas asked a question about how to manifest the status of women that I described at the entrance, along a history of mentalities ...
would like to make a description of my thesis through a series of texts in which, basically, we're going to ask whether or not history women have and what are the causes and consequences.
But remember that what I do from anthropology and not from history, since I am not a historian.
These texts will have an interview format, as shown in the 2nd book I've written The forgotten dream of Avalon, lest you aburráis, and the starting point is one of the entrances of the month February: An approach to complementarity and cultural context for understanding domestic violence. So you know, read that entry and then ...
(Incidentally, the book Mae's loneliness. An anthropological research on domestic violence, will be published by Basic and subsidized by the Institute for Women).

WHAT IS THE HISTORY OF WOMEN?
Can we say then that when human groups increase, so that they are effective, operational subsystems must come inside? Yes

And, of course, in the sub-groups are more important than individuals.
More important than the concept I would rather say that becomes the minimum unit of social interaction.
We'll see. In hunter-gatherer systems in the absence of effective range / affection between the individual and the group is the group itself that forms the ethos of the subjects. This identification makes both the group and each subject should be organized as a minimum unit of social interaction. However, when groups increase and become more complex, the effective distance individual / group emotionally, so the clan will be structured as a mediator, as of one's personality, and a structure of power and social control. The community is not of individuals but clans.
And how does this affect the ways of feeling and thinking about domestic relations between women and men?
domestic relations system is to articulate from what we might call representational and affective complementarity as reflected in the legend of the Ona referred to above, which results in a behavioral patterns of woman's subjection to man, mother and wife, the warrior-hunter.
She ceases to be autonomous and begins to identify with his own body: mother, wife, home, eschara, domus ...
The wife is essentially mother (midwife), and within the community is no longer a factor balance and cohesion, social achievements identify with the achievements of his son, who only identifies with his father and his mother's clan.
But there is a wife, and from there can only be attributed part of the status of her husband, but he takes none of it.
But why these changes?
We must stop thinking in terms of Alice in Wonderland. Westerners are very spoiled and we have eradicated from our vocabulary the term survival.
How many problems can be generated in a community if women compete directly with men for the same spheres of reality?
(You'd be surprised what the structural situation of women in Sweden ...)
In groups of hunter-gatherers never have direct competition, both can develop their public functions without interference in the field of the other (which is the subject of social status), because the group local and the individual are identified. However, when communities get older, when regional groupings are becoming units of survival, the need for male use (by the use of war as a strategy, the emergence of surpluses, the distance between the community and the individual, etc.) necessarily involves the reduction of the public dimension of women and their subsequent relegation to the domestic sphere.
But this does not work in the case of large matrilineal or matrilocal societies, which would mean they are an exception to what you're saying.
sure you can find exceptions, so what? When the phenomenon is the human being, every day we find our exceptions to our theories about biological, medical, sociological, psychological, etc. and no one is invalidated, smoking two packs of cigarettes for 80 years and with 95 still alive, estimates of votes that are never met (and hence win-win), women who are battered for many years and do not let their husbands , etc.
But is that in this case your statement is not an exception to our hypothesis.
matrilineal systems exist in fact, the Iroquois, the Hurons of North America, Africa and Munducuru Nayar Amazon are typical, as are the trobiandeses Malnowski studied, but these communities do not represent an effective power of women ( matriarchy) but a male power is acquired through the mother.
The fact of organizing matrilineally has to do with the survival strategies on a large scale in the men spend long periods outside the community: hunting, warring, trading ... Who is going to take care of the daily organization of the group?: its women.
But there matriarchy, and although women enjoy high social status does not imply that its organizational structure is not complementary. The father is not replaced by the mother, but her brother, the Grand Chief is still a man and although humanity comes from a woman, the male hero is a man. Would
illustrate this with some myth?
This is a myth of the ceram, a cannibalistic culture of New Guinea (Melanesia), which tells how human beings were no longer together and formed the tribes and how they ceased to be immortal.
"Nine families of mankind came to the top Nunusaku Mount, where people had sprung from bunches of bananas. Among them was a man whose name was Ameta, which means "Dark", "Black" or "Night", and neither married nor had children. One day he went hunting with his dog. Soon the dog smelled a wild pig and followed the trail to a pond in which the animal fled, but the dog remained on the shore. And the pig got tired swimming and drowned, but the man, who had arrived meanwhile, recovered it and found a coconut in his tusk, although at that time there were no coconut trees in the world.
Returning to his hut, Ameta placed the fruit on a shelf and covered with a cloth where there was a picture of a snake, then went to bed. And at night there appeared a man who said: "The coconut you've placed on the shelf and covered with a cloth should be planted in the earth." Ameta planted the coconut the next day and three days later the tree had grown and was high. It took another three days and already had flowers. Climbed the tree to cut, because I wanted to get a drink, but picked up while a finger was cut and the blood fell on a leaf. Returned home to bandage the finger. After three days back and found someone's face in the place where his blood had mixed with the sap from cut flowers. Three days later it was the trunk of the person, and when he came back after three days, found that one little girl had grown up. That night the man appeared to him in the dream, "Grab your cloth with a picture of the snake, carefully wrapped the girl in the coconut with the cloth and take it to your house." Ameta
did what the man's dream and told him three days later took home the girl, whom he called Hainuwele, cella. But it was not like an ordinary person, because when I answered the call of nature produced all sorts of valuable things, so that Ameta became rich.
And at that time was to be held maro a grand ball at the place of the Nine Lands of Dance, which were to participate the nine families of humanity and would last for nine full nights. When people dance the maro, the women sit in the center and from there they will give men betel nut, the dance they are a great spiral of nine laps. The first night, Hainuwele stood in the center and distributed seeds of betel.
The second night, the nine families of humanity gathered in the second field, and again Hainuwele was placed in the center, but this time, instead of coral distributed seeds among the dancers. The third night, handed china. The following machetes. After copper boxes beautifully carved betel. So every day that passed, Hainuwele gave most valuable things. People
seemed mysterious donation of many gifts. They met and discussed the matter.
Everyone was very jealous and afraid that Hainuwele could distribute as much wealth and decided to kill her. So the ninth night, when the girl was in the middle of the field, the men dug a deep hole in the area. Then, during the dance of the nine circles, were gradually pushing Hainuwele until brought down in the hole. They covered the hole with earth and trampled all night.
When the festival ended and Hainuwele Maro did not return, his father knew he had been killed. It was the site of the new field of Dance, dug up the corpse and went looking for satin, the second highest Dema virgin who had given being to human beings. Ameta
showed him the body of her daughter and cursed humanity, and the maiden Satin called people and said, "Because you killed, I refuse to live here anymore. Today abandon you and never see me again on earth. From now on, anyone who wants to recover his being must die. "
And Satin went and people were left without their being, each family had to invent a different one, and thereafter ceased to be one and divided into different tribes who were eventually enemy. "

If you notice, the reason is the same as in the myth of the Ona, but the fact is that if these communities are patrilineal, in the case of the ceram we find matrilineal communities, in which the feminine (Hainuwele) is of great significance in the way of regulating the relations between the clans.
Where is the difference?
For the Ona are the men who removed the female, either directly, while in the case of the ceram female is killed by the community.
Where lies the ordinary?
"Regardless of the culture hero is a man?
in that both reflect a structure Additional: patriarchy (patrilineal / matrilineal), in which women are subjected in the political field and reduced the scope of the family. That none describes a historical situation but legitimize a particular type of organization that finds its role in the environment: survival versus other groups; depletion, demographic crisis, etc..
any case, communities that are organized in clans are matrilineal and patrilineal either be structurally organized in the same way.
Why?
Because they are complex communities in determining what are extrinsically, relations between different groups fighting for resources and, intrinsically, the relationship of individuals to the group.
And everything happens for women right?
Indeed, to prevent the woman becoming competitive and disorganized, through education of individuals, the established order.
So, how much larger the group the greater the need to control women?
Indeed, but remember that this story is a working hypothesis, whose sole function is to:
1. Integrate a systemic conceptualization determined a possible way of describing human political structures to ...
2. Able to use that description ... in terms of structure to understand one type of phenomenon, domestic violence, which has a universal extension.
At this level of our description of a scenario, the important point is a kind of improbable but very possible law: the group size is directly proportional to the additional control exercised by the group on women.
With increasing distance between individuals and the group and knowing that this is the agency of survival of the species, how to guarantee such survival imbalances caused by individuals, while open systems, and other human groups?
The woman can not be competing at the heart of man of a human group, it would be a huge source of political conflict:
- Imagine what would happen when a party of Iroquois warriors go to war against the Hurons and their return, a group of women had taken "a coup" on behalf of a extended family and had come to power.
- O imagine Iroquois women with complete freedom over their sexuality and therefore reproduction. How would a man if the child is his or not? Etc.

would be a continuing source of conflict and confrontation that would make the Iroquois in a community not suitable for survival.
How to control this happening?
A throughout a system of knowledge, values \u200b\u200band principles that control complementary female ethos based on the male ethos.
This control is done by setting a structural system that:
1. Establishes a primacy and a separation of male over female, so that women and men are separated from infancy.
2. Establishing a ritual space in which children have access to the adult world (social) within a clan.
3. Reference provides a context in which the feminine is reinterpreted from the male.
The end result is a system that develops from the complementarity as context, distancing women from every sphere of power and controlling influence on the education of children.
whole order of reality is transformed in this way, ontology, epistemology, ethics and politics.
In short?
a transition occurs (it is not an evolution, but a higher level of complexity due to increased population in human communities) of an ancient world in which they hunt animals with bows and arrows and dance ritual dancing ; make fire and are great teachers of humanity, a world where man take charge of the arc and impose their law on the natural and political order.
The passage of a universe in which men and women menstruate without bodies sex, a cosmos in which the man's teeth start to the vagina and menstruation becomes first pollutant.
The transformation of a reciprocal social reality based on the autonomy of women and men, to a political order in which the complementary relationships distribute social power of man (domain) on women (submission).
And this is what the myths of origin, under which it could recognize the change in an indigenous community based on reciprocity, in which women represent the creation and recreation of social order. In a community where women are the chaos, ignorance, evil that threatens the very survival of the group. It is the principle Be that be controlled and subdued.
And this structure continues with the emergence of the state?
course, is what brings the clan syndrome: the complex system of knowledge, values \u200b\u200band complementary principles, which form a social space in which the male represents the public (political) and all that that entails, and women represents private (domestic) and all that that implies.
In the oldest Greek societies, women are identified with the home (chì), while the man (oikos) symbolizes what it covers and protects the home and, by extension, represents the lineage, the temple, homeland politics .
Clan syndrome occurs in Homeric society, under a system of representation in the husband is not only husband but his wife's father, and under that parenting exerts absolute control over women. And it does not matter whether in-law marriage, in which the woman is given and the donation is transferred possession, or in-law, in which the woman is possessed by the male line of his own family.
Is this type of organization responds to situations of survival?
course.
In these societies the family group is organized and legitimated through marriage as an instrument complementary to minimize conflicts between families, prevent, for example, polygamy and, through it, a family set too many alliances and monopolize power, excessive population growth ...
Notice how again appears the intrinsic connection between the community (monarchy / state) and the family.
And what about the gynaecocracy Bachofen?
Without focusing much more technical criticism and transcending the evolutionary view of history that had Bachofen we must consider that the continued existence of the matriarchy is confused with the matrilineal and matrilocal. And not even distinguish it is clear that the interpretation of Cretan society, or the Egyptian state, say, which is suitable Bachofen.
Remember the myth of Cecrops (Myth III)?
was an ancient Athenian king called upon all citizens to choose between the olive tree, representing Athena and Poseidon representing water as symbols of the city ...
In fact, if you remember the men voted for Poseidon, while that women, who could then vote for those (as myth), voted to Athena. Be that as it was a woman, won Athena with the resulting anger of Poseidon, without thinking twice, flooded the city.
To placate the men had to punish women ...

Remember How?
could not vote again, could not keep the name of the mother and could not be named as Athenians.
Perfect. And now what do you think that describes us this myth?
course is not a historical event, more like a way to justify the loss of the wife of his political status.
The loss? That would mean that at some point enjoyed that status. And so, what was lost, at most, was the matrilineality, ie the myth justifies a system of patrilineal social functioning (Myth II). And ultimately, we described the same as the myth ona or ceram: a complementary structure of political organization.
It is therefore necessary to interpret, as does Bachofen, this myth as a historical reflection of the passage of humanity from a lower state / mother, to a higher state / father.
is clearly not necessary and, moreover, would be very controversial
In fact, it is but we should not get into this maze.
What about Athens?
Applying the additional control law can be deduced that the woman was removed from any political reference.
The emergence of the state involves the suppression of the clans (families) as the smallest units of social interaction. Now his position will be occupied by the legally constituted individual (and not naturally as hunter-gatherers, or ritually as clans). Thus emerges the citizen as a political entity.
Women Is a citizen? No, they belong to a political community is acquired through the marriage contract. It is, therefore, marriage, and not the birth that gives citizenship to women. Have you heard anything? But make no mistake, she is a citizen as a wife and mother and not as a person, so in the right Athenian women is politically irresponsible for what should be supervised throughout their life, by her husband.
Marriage is part of the individual donation and her dowry, the father of the bride to her son and, moreover, control of the husband over the person and her dowry.
What is left to the woman? Submit and domesticated.
So really, women have always been apart of history.
In fact, not be naive, apart from official and unofficial history, because history, in whatever form it is always a political narrative.
And so, just so that when we hear the word god, imagine a man, when we hear the term history, we imagine masculinity. And it's not a matter of language but of ethos, because all women should be educated to submit to their husbands and teach their daughters the naturalness of that submission, at the same time you should teach your children to dominate their wives.
What do you expect a woman in a man? Domain.
What do you expect a man to a woman? Submission. Note that
so so "easy" to prevent women from becoming a competitor of man in society.
And the myth is what sets these attitudes?
is what it reflects, ultimately, the structure that determines complementarity and domestic relations.
Who cares that the situation of women is caused mythological Eve's sin, voting to Athena, the nature (maternity), or law? Anyway, the real cause is the complementary structure (domain type / submission) under which any social system is organized (more complex than that of local groups) and whose function is to control the destabilizing and chaotic nature of human beings that through the myths (in this case level II), it is always attributed to the essential or willful irresponsibility of women.
of weak will, mind and incapable of being imperfect, Roman law became the "difference" with respect to the man in rule of law, with all that that entails from a political perspective ...
The woman then, never mind as a citizen?
Not exactly. Women from a civic perspective remains important, but as a wife and mother, ie in its domestic role, so it reaches its civic recognition, not political, when she becomes a mother, that is, when her husband provides seed .
But is not it true that the Roman aristocracy gave equal importance to both genealogical family lines?
Indeed, the bloodlines are important, but the exercise of control depended on the paternal line. So when when they married, she asked would you be my paterfamilias? With what he meant: that the man became for her in a "father", a householder, a householder, whose power had to be submitted along with their children.
But notice that a man becomes pater when his father died, while a woman becomes a mater, provides children with her husband. Thus
public and private domestic politics and reach different meaning depending on the autonomy of man or woman's dependence, so that while the motherland power was a matter of course important, but that did not reach beyond the household, parental rights was a legal relationship from which is generated across the political order.
In short: citizenship and masculinity were the same cosa. / strong>
In fact, once again repeated the same pattern complementary.
And in the Middle Ages any worse? (...)

Friday, June 22, 2007

Big Mama With Big Clit

June 23 ... another international day

When was the last time we remember them ...?
Reflections on a victim of abuse (which does not recognize that it is ...)
"Nothing that you say, if anyone tells you, you serve.
Nobody really understands what happens to you, and always the same, I criticize, I say "who does not love you", "who insults you," who puts you down "... and so much style. "It very easy to talk from outside. "
Yes, what you say is true. But you know that something is not working in your relationships.
Something is going as it should go and every passing day feel less forces you to understand, so every time you talk less of it or even think about it less. After all only happens from time to time, and when it happens you know it's because he's had a bad day because he loves you and you know what he says and makes you not feel real. He has said many times, and if you have not already, do not worry: you will!
- "I'm sorry, today I had a bad day at work ... that they only serve not sorry for fucking truth. "
And so you know it?
After all you're a nurse, working in a hospital for a long time and have never questioned your worth.
That's why I apologized, his words have been caused by a heater, "anyone can have a bad day." And when that happens is they say and do things that they feel or think.
You love a lot. There is more to see you every day. Already seven years of dating and have just a mortgage to buy a house and go away to live together. Everybody says, "You are made for each other." What's
then so much trouble on your part? You're exaggerating and seeing
storms where there are only a few clouds. Nothing happens. It's normal for couples to go through bad times, but remember that these bad times strengthen the family, because if true love, it always comes out ahead.
He loves you very much. Do not you remember what you said? "If not for me you'd be alone. Who will want to pay someone like you?
must not be selfish. Is your man, your partner, the father of your children, the person with whom you share the rest of your life. And if at times has "suddenly ill" and is slipping an insult or a slap
, help rather than ordered. Or do you not make mistakes? ".
Unfortunately, this reflection is not fictitious but is built from a conversation I had with a friend of that person, in which I explained the conversations they had between them.
The most serious, since the phenomenon of abuse can always be worse is that these words could be applied to two girls over 15 and 20 years, high school and college. But do not believe that the star of our thinking is very old, only 25 years.
How long are we going to allow?
As recognized by the UN and the European Union, one of the problems serious ethical and political societies have today is the problem of equality between women and men.
What are we doing to fix it really ...?
Law 1 / 2004 of 28 December on Integral Protection Measures against Gender Violence, gives an important weight to education (Statement of Reasons I and II) and requires the education community to develop strategies and mechanisms that allow recognition of principles and values \u200b\u200bthat promote equality generic at the same time make it impossible behaviors and values \u200b\u200baimed at domestic violence, both from the perspective of the students (Article 1, points 1.4 and 5, which are related secondary education and Bachillerato) and from the perspective of teachers (Article 7).
What strategies are being implemented ...?
Meanwhile, as usual ... waiting for us tomorrow or the next fatality count (how much we take to get to 40?), which are the only ones whose count is done daily, the rest ...
1. Why abused women only recognize physical abuse?
2. Why say that when it hits them, their partner is a behavior, we might point out, ideal (what is expected of a couple who loves you) about them?
3. Why which support the abusive situation over many years?
4. Why are we responsible to the victims of abuse?
5. Why not get that domestic violence (and the situation of women) is recognized as one of the major problems of society?
6. Why is it so difficult to recognize women as the prototypical victim of domestic violence?
7. Why domestic violence is growing?
8. Why is the situation of women continues to deteriorate?
9. Why to be a woman in the world must be like a man? Etc. These are

some of the issues relevant place is still much to do in the fight against domestic violence. And, moreover, show that research must begin to move to other places where the statistics are not enough, as family and schools.
In fact, we can only answer these questions if we can understand the type of situations that lie behind these questions, if we can understand what it means to be a woman within a human community, for what is necessary to delve into the universe of the family as a meaningful context of interactions between women (mother, wife, partner, etc..) and men (father, spouse, partner, etc.)..
But in addition, every effort must be comprehensive in its broadest sense, so it is necessary to transfer the research into areas of intervention such as classrooms, both from a theoretical and practical which will allow us to develop all a set of mechanisms of immediate practical application, through tutorials.
The goal: that students can recognize in themselves the values \u200b\u200bthat enable domestic violence and gender discrimination, and from that recognition to establish strategies for behavior correction and transformation of values \u200b\u200bin itself and the Moreover, self-oriented in the case of them, and self-control in their case.
But we are not to be overlooked that all these issues can only be covered from the culture, ie from the structural framework that makes up the mode-of-being of women in relation to the mode-of-being masculine, what ultimately should be to build a descriptive model from which we can answer questions such as:
1. Structural causes (complementary), resulting in domestic violence.
2. The aprehendizaje of these structures.
3. The structural arrangements that may allow changes in emotional value systems that underlie this phenomenon, so that we can replace the complementary structure from which relationships are formed male> female> male ... and one that is reciprocal.
It therefore remains to be done and we must not lower our guard in the fight against domestic violence, beyond the November 25 and March 8 reside times and places where the victims are forgotten and the perpetrators feel safe.

PS: I designed a series of experiments to work in the classroom (tutoring 4 º ESO): Does anyone involved in this project? Do you know someone who wants to do ...?
Thanks.