Women: I said at the time (May 2009 entry), it would not make any value judgments about abortion and today, I do not either. There are two personal reasons underlying this decision:
The first has to do with the fact that I am a man, or whatever it is, I am located in the Comfortable side view, one in which we can speak without suffering any consequences of our decisions.
The second reason, related to the first, has to do with the fact that I have a deep respect for all those people who have to decide from his own existence and destiny, and this essential respect leads me, in turn, a deep respect for one's choices that takes that person.
Consequently, despite the misogynistic and mindless barking of archbishops, magnets, and other fauna of human beasts, not today I will give my opinion about abortion, not one to give, and I insist that only he would give a a friend, a personal capacity and if I ask.
But at this point in the history of mankind (S. XXI), I wonder why we are so vile, ignorant, unfair and dangerous for women: all talk about abortion hidden dominance over women and a denial of same as the subject of ethics and political autonomy.
Why nobody talks about what it means to motherhood and fatherhood from a social and cultural? Why nobody says nothing about how it affects parenthood for women and men, in regard to their daily lives as a person?
all know that is not the same being a mother to be father to the man to remain the dominant social and cultural subject, all what is asked is a public paternity responsible for love, recognition, support. And nothing more!
Meanwhile, women continue to be a social and cultural subject subordinate to motherhood and from this perspective it is subject to its own biological function. What is required is love, understanding, support and resignation. Nothing more and nothing less!
To put it very simply: we have a whole system of beliefs (religious or secular) that reduce women to a role of wife and mother, so then it is "normal" to pass unnoticed the fact that when a woman marries or has a child, must leave work (in whole or in part) to raise a family (That's what society expects of them), or be devoted to the care of elderly dependents (including their own partners). As a reminder
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for 64.6% of the English is ideal in a family both spouses work outside the home, while 33.4%! believes that women should be provided at home or at least less hours outside the home that the husband, it must deal with the housework.
But, despite that 64, 6% said it ideal women from working outside the home, over 80%! English population believes that the proper role of women is "mothering."
Thus we find that despite the advanced we believe to be, the reality is that:
- 72% of working women have part-time to devote to the care of children and elderly dependents.
- The percentage of women who leave the labor market, citing family reasons by far exceeds that of men: over 95% for her, less than 5% for them.
- 22% of women entrepreneurs say their partner is the biggest drag on their work.
And we could continue to analyze all societies all across the world to see that the situation of women is quite vulnerable compared to that of men: the economy (wages, working double shifts), family violence ( violations domestic violence, harassment, ...) double moral, political (power sharing), religions, etc., etc. ... different spaces in which the woman always loses in relation to men.
addition, values \u200b\u200bof male dominance and female subordination society is "normal" that some men (too many, unfortunately) are created by masters of the women who have sex with him that the attacks: physical , psychological, sexual and economic, could be justified for them.
And if not being told the Archbishop of Granada by legitimizing violence against women who have aborted. For those who do not know this guy publicly stated that when a woman aborts is giving the man an absolute license to abuse your body. And no one accused, tried and jailed! Where is the Ministry of Equality?
Let's see if we start to assume we're in a world where women must be protected at all costs and that such protection is not in custody, and subordinating her wake, but to recognize and respect their choices and decisions as ethical and political subjects autonomous.
We must create a reality in which this is possible, in which each woman to decide for itself and from itself, what they want to be.
