A case history:
few months ago, a high school student was put to mourn because he could not pass the course (I had never suspended). After the class, I met with them to find out what was wrong, and between sobs told me I could not study because they only wanted to be with her boyfriend. Than when they were together, she missed him and could only think of it ... "Imagine the rest. Too
operating endorphin in the body, too much dopamine circulating in the blood, too many hanging mythological models of desire, too many interests to burden our behavior ... In the middle S
XXI how little we know about ourselves as individuals and as a community. And while the state of affairs continues, in the same spot thousands of years, we start to discuss brownfield issues about "members" and members.
Have you ever wondered why people who hide in the language always begin with the masculine term? Should we not also focus on the percentages? The fair that each sex would fall by 50% starting in any generic list.
Let's be serious, please.
I can assure you that my little student care if she was a "member" or if your boyfriend was a member ... I was just ready to stop being self-same, being for-it. And unfortunately this situation is quite daily among us: in schools, colleges, universities, markets, gyms ... In short, at ground level and not Real Flight Academy.
I said in a previous article that gave a vote of confidence to the new Ministry, and I maintain it, but I tell the minister (in all humility), that the problem of domestic violence (which is not simply to assault marital, but the domain of male values) is structural and, therefore, requires the same level measures to help solve, or at least alleviate it.
As much as you want, which is honored, it will not be able to solve the problems of being a woman in the world overnight: it is a matter of generations, but what not to do is divert to marginal issues.
If necessary, change of advisers, but not become the problem of equality in a circus, because these tracks are always fatal attractions. We must be patient and know exactly what you want to do and why.
and worth, by the way, these same words to the Director of the Institute for Women in the Region of Murcia, with regard to educational program for preventing dating violence.
Do you really think you can train girls and boys in skills that enable them to identify future violent relationships? Do you sincerely believe that boys and girls do not know how to identify them (by themselves and themselves)? Do you think you change modes-of-being and feeling is the same as changing behavior? Do you think learning and aprehendizaje follow the same patterns? Do you really think that is so simple?
several years working with students (or played-os? Go do not remember), even with the girl whose example I have at first. Several years (investigation) in which they read stories, seen documentaries, movies, power-point. Have argued, fought, answered, argued, and so on. And after many years of research I am able to say that, unfortunately, the issue can not be reduced to a Literature Workshop. "
This program you have is pure artifice: 12 sessions to combat child abuse "?; For students to generate" self-concepts?; to know "the values \u200b\u200bof self? and body with "intuitions?; for girls" know not to get involved?
may serve to justify any kind of political, but what evidence is that they have no idea what they are talking.
As I informed you (Do you remember that I proposed a program of large-scale intervention and said he would call me? "I'm still waiting), involved in education, if you want to do with seriousness and rigor, it is only possible through structural application programs that require the processing of specific curriculum subjects, for the issue of domestic violence and the situation of women in society has its own autonomy and is not a matter of gender mainstreaming workshops or collateral. Also, intervention models are needed to address the issue in the coaching of the ESO and through the APAS.
precisely what I suggested to no response on their part.
Like it or not, and this goes for both the struggle for equality is not going to advertise themselves, but to disrupt and combat complementary structures (dominance / submission), on which are set the way we feel and think of the inside of domestic relations (family).
is so long and so complicated. An arduous task in which all institutions should involve a combined effort and constant.
If you are in the work, collaborate, organize, direct ... If not, please do not interfere.
